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family. “i always hear…”

family. “i always hear…”

i always hear other parents saying, “they grow so fast…” and now i know exactly what they mean.

before, i just agreed and said, “yeah i knowwwww…” while not fully understanding. i knew that my daughter, emory, grew out of her infant clothes and shoes before she even wore a lot of them, but now, i absolutely realize the true meaning of the statement. in the past two months, i’ve watched and experienced her get taller, gain weight, get smarter and her vocabulary increase.

hell, even her hair went through a growth spurt. here i thought i was going to have to give her a mohawk on her 2nd birthday. (picture angel brown – mel b’s daughter) i said to myself and a couple of friends that emory would definitely rock this look if her hair didn’t get any longer! and was well prepared to give it to her… while a bunch of other mothers and friends were shocked in disbelief that i might not go through with it. well — you all lucked out this time!

the honor of being a mom is completely and truly special… emory is so caring, watchful, and still so very curious about EVERYTHING! her vocabulary has skyrocketed… i just hope her smartness — that she got from me of course — continues throughout college! :) ) i watch her sleep at night and think to myself, ” i must be the luckiest person alive“! but i guess most every mom feels that overwhelmingly unconditional love for their child.

i said all of that to say that “damn!

now, i have to go out and buy new shoes, new clothes and new toys (more geared to her age & play level) because she’s outgrown almost everything in her closet… how did that happen? sheesh kids are expensive!!!

loves these little waterproof (rain) boots for kids, although they do come in adult sizes too!!! how fashionable!

Bogs ‘Classic High’ Waterproof Boot

Stretchy neoprene shaft fashions a waterproof boot designed to keep feet warm and dry. Cutout handles allow for easy pull-on wear, while the nonslip outsole provides superior traction.

  • Removable Aegis™ antimicrobial footbed.
  • Comfort range to -30 degrees Fahrenheit.
  • Rubber and neoprene upper/textile lining/rubber sole.
  • By Bogs; imported.

today. no easy way.

today. no easy way.

this is the 3rd day and i can give you firsthand facts that let you know that there is no easy way to give a toddler eyedrops without getting caveman-like. and from reading blogs, forums and other question/answer sessions online, i now know that i’m not the only one who has had to resort to borderline childhood brutality to administer this medicine.

the closest, nicest way i’ve read is to tell the child to lie down on his back with his head in your lap, close his eyes, while you put drops in the inner corner of the eye, then tell the kid to open his eyes, and the medicine will magically go into the eye and “poof!” your problems are solved ——- WRONG!

maybe if you have a 6-year-old….

but i’m the mother of an 18-month-old… and independent little girl at that…. i can tell you why this method does not work.

# 1 – try telling/asking/demanding that the child even lay down in the first place… this is half the battle… not even mentioning laying her head in my lap! yeah right!

# 2 – close his eyes…. wow! that was easy because every time my daughter even sees this particular medicine bottle, she immediately covers her eyes and runs away… and if she doesn’t she’s fighting me over the bottle so she can go hide it!

# 3 – well… even after all that… if i manage to hold her down with her head in my lap, eyes firmly closed… and i’m dropping the drops in her eyes… except she doesn’t magically open her eyes… she’s wiping all the medicine off with her hands because she doesn’t want it!

so no, there is no “poof!”

without putting her in a headlock, locking her arms behind her head, and since i don’t have help to hold her down…

the only method/problem that is feasible enough to work is the method of administering eyedrops when she is asleep…. ahhhhhh! the sound of birds chirping

there is no fussing, no fighting, no crying, no yelling, no kicking, no screaming, no hitting – but there is only the problem of that she’s supposed to get these drops 4 times a day (waiting 4 hours in between each app)!

there is no win/win situation….

i just wish these pharmaceutical packaging companies would realize that 1-year-olds aren’t into parents telling them what to do, especially when it comes to eyedrops!

today. i am strongly against human trafficking.

today. i am strongly against human trafficking.

Link: today. i am strongly against human trafficking.

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Co-founded by sexual slavery survivor,  Somaly Mam, the foundation works to eradicate human trafficking, liberate its victims, and empower survivors so they can create and sustain lives of dignity. The foundation supports survivor rescue, shelter and rehabilitation programs globally with a special focus on Southeast Asia, where the trafficking of women and girls, some as young as five, is a widespread practice. The Somaly Mam Foundation also runs awareness and advocacy campaigns in North America and around the world that shed light on the crime of human trafficking and focus on getting the public and governments involved in the fight to abolish modern day slavery.

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